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Don’t marry anyone who does not accept their mistakes – Counselor Adofoli

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Counselor Adofoli in his new write-up has cautioned singles not to marry anyone who does not accept their mistakes.

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It is very true there is no perfect human or partner out there. And if there were, they won’t want you because you are not perfect.

But one thing is for sure, we are all work in progress. When it comes to someone who doesn’t recognize their mistakes in life and think they are always right even when they are wrong, such a person will make an issues out of nothing and make important issues appear as nothing.

They are one kind of human beings who are insensitive to the needs of their partner; it’s all about them. They are selfish and lack growth. 

Such kinds of people need to work on themselves and if they are not willing, they cannot be the best choice of a life partner.

It takes a man or woman who learns in life to teach, if they are not learning from their own mistakes how can they teach you how you should relate to them?

You cannot be happy with someone who sees nothing wrong with their hurtful actions and even when you complain, it feels as if you are making noise. That is not someone who loves you.

People who love you want you to be happy always and because of that, any small change about you in the relationship affects them. 

They are the ones always asking about your change of mood, wanting to know if they have done anything to contribute to that. Sometimes they go a step further to even apologize when they know they are not at fault but they just want to see you happy.

These are the persons who see how problematic you can become sometimes, how difficult you become sometimes, how moody you can get but still want you in their lives; Always seeking for ways and means to help you become better. 

By so doing, they bring out the best in you. They do these not because they are fools or have nothing doing but because they love and care for you.

The best you can do is appreciate them, become a better partner by accepting your mistake when you are wrong, even if you are unaware and they are able to tell you or show you. 

Your response is to become sober, grateful and apologetic than being angry, selfish and arrogant towards them.

If the person you are with and studying for marriage, have the habit of not realizing their mistakes or don’t see what is wrong with their actions and words no matter how wrong and unacceptable they are, then it means such person doesn’t want to be one with you.

It is therefore best you let them go. Remember just because you love them does not give you the ability to change them.

Letting go such a relationship might be scary because life’s big changes are scary, but what is scarier is the regret that you didn’t let go when you had to.

For those of you who find it hard to accept your mistakes especially when your partner points them out to you, you are only driving away from your life people who truly love you. It takes only a truly lover or family to tell you “your mouth smells”. 

They do this because they want the best for you. They can’t stand you be ridiculed.

In conclusion, “Arrogant know-it-alls stir up discord, but wise men and women listen to each other’s counsel” – Proverbs 13:10 (MSG).

Please share with your friends, someone out there needs this.

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SO FRESH, SO CLEAN: NEW BALANCE 997 “MINT JULEP”

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Image: Sneaker Politics

We thought the upcoming Bodega collab was a fresh set of kicks, but the latest colorway for New Balance’s fan-favorite 997 model is now decked out in a “Mint Julep” hue that really deserves a toast

 

Named after the classic frozen alcoholic drink that’s always a big hit during spring and summer nights, this mint-themed hue is completely tonal throughout the silhouette. The suede upper looks especially dope decked out in the colorway, and paired with the tumbled leather heel counter and ENCAP midsole donning a matching tone, we can’t think of a better shoe that represents the season at hand quite like this iteration. Bottoms up!

Get the New Balance 997 “Mint Julep” now at select New Balance retailers like Sneaker Politics, who provided the equally fresh imagery below:

 

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VIDEO: Vitamin Wendy Narrates How Her Boyfriend Used Tissue To Clean Her Private Part After They Slept Together

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In the most interesting twist of any social media story you’ve ever come across, the video vixen who went viral after it was reported that she lost her life after she was used for rituals by her Yahoo boyboyfriend, has mystically been resurrected from the dead and has shared a video to prove this.

Vitamin Wendy has in a new video, given the narrative of all that went down in the past couple of days after it was reported that she was used by her boyfriend, identified as Jide for ritual purposes.

Taking to her Insta stories, Wendy reveals that the reason for faking her own death was in a bid to distract her now ex-boyfriend from carry out the rest of his assignments for his ritual rites.

Wendy gave in details all that had transpired between herself and her ex-boyfriend before she came down to Lagos and news went viral that she’d died. In the video, she curses Jide’s parents who she says have no idea of their son’s source of wealth but still collect things from him.

She admits that she’s very much alive and is not a ghost as people claimed that she is while she was making the video…

It’s quite lengthy but it’s worth the watch… Watch Wendy give in details all that is connected to her fake death and being used for ritual story below.

Watch the video below, as Obtained by YabaLeftOnline.(Press Play)

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I Need To Lose My Virginity – Lady Posts On Instagram

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She might be joking, or trolling.. But a Kenyan Lady ha said she’s ready to lose her virginity.

The lady identified as Shay Evah, who claimed to be half-Kenyan and half-Tanzanian looks more like a model and most of her photos she uploaded on the App seem to be ones taken in exotic places and quite provocative.

But she seemed to have courted a little bit of controversy when she captioned one of her photos:

I Just Feel Like I Need To Lose My Virginity😍😂😌 Sio Kwa Mshepu Huo🤩Sema Kanenepa Sijui Kunani🤔

 

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