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Don’t marry anyone who does not accept their mistakes – Counselor Adofoli

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Counselor Adofoli in his new write-up has cautioned singles not to marry anyone who does not accept their mistakes.

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It is very true there is no perfect human or partner out there. And if there were, they won’t want you because you are not perfect.

But one thing is for sure, we are all work in progress. When it comes to someone who doesn’t recognize their mistakes in life and think they are always right even when they are wrong, such a person will make an issues out of nothing and make important issues appear as nothing.

They are one kind of human beings who are insensitive to the needs of their partner; it’s all about them. They are selfish and lack growth. 

Such kinds of people need to work on themselves and if they are not willing, they cannot be the best choice of a life partner.

It takes a man or woman who learns in life to teach, if they are not learning from their own mistakes how can they teach you how you should relate to them?

You cannot be happy with someone who sees nothing wrong with their hurtful actions and even when you complain, it feels as if you are making noise. That is not someone who loves you.

People who love you want you to be happy always and because of that, any small change about you in the relationship affects them. 

They are the ones always asking about your change of mood, wanting to know if they have done anything to contribute to that. Sometimes they go a step further to even apologize when they know they are not at fault but they just want to see you happy.

These are the persons who see how problematic you can become sometimes, how difficult you become sometimes, how moody you can get but still want you in their lives; Always seeking for ways and means to help you become better. 

By so doing, they bring out the best in you. They do these not because they are fools or have nothing doing but because they love and care for you.

The best you can do is appreciate them, become a better partner by accepting your mistake when you are wrong, even if you are unaware and they are able to tell you or show you. 

Your response is to become sober, grateful and apologetic than being angry, selfish and arrogant towards them.

If the person you are with and studying for marriage, have the habit of not realizing their mistakes or don’t see what is wrong with their actions and words no matter how wrong and unacceptable they are, then it means such person doesn’t want to be one with you.

It is therefore best you let them go. Remember just because you love them does not give you the ability to change them.

Letting go such a relationship might be scary because life’s big changes are scary, but what is scarier is the regret that you didn’t let go when you had to.

For those of you who find it hard to accept your mistakes especially when your partner points them out to you, you are only driving away from your life people who truly love you. It takes only a truly lover or family to tell you “your mouth smells”. 

They do this because they want the best for you. They can’t stand you be ridiculed.

In conclusion, “Arrogant know-it-alls stir up discord, but wise men and women listen to each other’s counsel” – Proverbs 13:10 (MSG).

Please share with your friends, someone out there needs this.

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I am a Ghana-based freelance Journalist fascinated in the Music Industry, A.M.G Medikal’s Personal Assistant, Experienced Blogger with a demonstrated history of working in the music industry. Skilled in Music Publishing, Event Planning likewise Event Management. Strong media and communication || Contact : 0241747840

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More photos of Abidivabroni, the most curvaceous Ghanaian mother on social media

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Many female celebrities we have in Ghana currently have carved a niche for themselves thanks to social media.

They are well known in Ghana due to their frequent activities on social media.

However, one beautiful lady has taken over social media with her curvy body and her name is Abidivabroni.

As earlier reported by YEN.com.gh, Abidivabroni is a businesswoman and she have given birth to four children.

With her curvaceous body, Nsemwokrom.com has gathered 7 more unseen of her that will knock you off your feet.

1. Abidivabroni put her curvy body on display:

2. She looks so beautiful in this photo:

3. Red looks good on her:

4. This photo can melt any man’s heart:

5. She is always on point:

6. She has got swag:

source: nsemwokrom

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#GILLYWEB GOSSIP: Man Weds Two Wives In White Wedding Ceremony (Photos)

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Another man has wedded his two wives in a white wedding ceremony.

Though details of the wedding are sketchy, location and where the wedding took place is unknown, but photos were shared.

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I slept with 600 men a year for survival – Lady tells story

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A 24-year-old lady has set tongues wagging with a new revelation about how she survived when she had no money.

A former prostitute has narrated a story of how she had to survive by sleeping with men for over a year.

According to the lady, since she had nothing to live on, she had to sleep with about 600 different men in a year.

In a report sighted on Celebritiesbuzz.com.gh, the lady narrated the ordeals she had to go through as a poor girl.

In the report, Beatrice (not her real name) disclosed what led to the decision of becoming a prostitute.

She noted that after getting dumped by her boyfriend and having a low-paying job, she had no option than to go into sleeping with men for money.

She recalled how her friends spread negative rumors about her leading to her boyfriend quitting their relationship.

The lady who is a student at a vocational institute in the country went on to reveal that it was the day that she went to a nightclub that she began the prostitution job.

According to her, the salary at her pub job was GHC150 but on the night when she went to the nightclub, the man who took her to his hotel room paid GHC200 the next day.

“They were paying me GH¢150 a month and you work late hours. But if you go out to hustle in the night, you can get that kind of money within a day or two,” she stated.

She continued her confession saying “About 600 men slept with me from last year to this year.”

But Beatrice who now seems to be a changed person, said that she later discovered that prostitution is not as lucrative as she thought.

She noted that she is tired of warming the beds of different men each night as she is ready to settle down with a man.

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